God Uses False Eyelashes

Yes, you read that right.

It was the afternoon of my mother’s birthday. My parents and I decided to stop by the mall for a while before going out to dinner to celebrate. As I always do when I visit this mall, I stepped into possibly the greatest store on earth: Sephora.

For those of you who don’t know, Sephora is basically a giant makeup store. (Hey, I’m a girl, we like this sort of thing.) It has colognes and perfumes and all sorts of beauty products, but the main attraction is the twenty-something makeup counters in this place. It is a woman’s paradise.

I entered the Haven of Rest and as I happily wandered the aisles, inhaling a cloud of perfumes and sampling new colors, I noticed a woman glancing sideways at me. I continued shopping and just as I began applying hot pink blush to my cheeks, I heard a voice say, “Excuse me–but is your last name Talley?”

I turned around and was face-to-face with a lovely woman with very kind eyes and a warm, friendly smile. I smiled and said “Yes, my name is Lauren.” She exclaimed how she had seen my family sing on TV and how much she loved our music. We talked for a minute about singing, exchanged pleasantries, and told each other to have a nice day.

As I turned to leave the store, she called after me, “Lauren–this may be a strange question, but…do you ever use false eyelashes?”

As a self-described makeup junkie, I laughed and said, yes, I did wear them occasionally on stage and for photo shoots. She said, “Well, I’ve been caring for my elderly father, and I don’t fix myself up much anymore. But I’d like to try them out sometime when I want to feel pretty–what kind do you think I should try?”

I showed her my favorite kind of false eyelashes, and told her how to put them on. She said, “Oh, I’m so excited! It’s been a long time since I did anything like this. I’ve been taking care of my dad and I just don’t get out of the house much these days.” I told her about my mamaw, who is an Alzheimer’s patient, and although I’m not involved with her caregiving every day, we discovered that we have lots of experiences with our loved ones in common.

This sweet lady was not wearing an ounce of makeup, but her face was radiant as she spoke of her father. She told me that her life, compared to many people, had been somewhat of an easy one, and she frankly was not used to the role of servant. On this day her husband had treated her to a day out of the house, and encouraged her to go into Sephora to get herself some new things as a treat. But her unadorned eyes filled with tears as she said what a blessing it had been to her to be able to care for her father, whom she greatly respected, and how honored she felt that she could serve him.

She shared that on the days when it was hardest to deal with the challenges her father’s age and declining health presented, she could literally feel Jesus next to her as she cared for her dad. She said that she had learned so much about the Lord during this time and that God had given her the most rewarding, loving moments with her dad.

My mom walked up as I was talking to this lady and the three of us began to tell funny things that our relatives had said and done. The unspoken theme of our conversation was unmistakable: though it can be painful to see a loved one age and deteriorate, God uses even the ugly and painful things of life for His glory, and He makes things beautiful in His own way.

The moment was, in a word, holy.

Who would have thought God would be present in the middle of makeup? Who would ever guess that He uses frivolous things like false eyelashes to speak to our souls?

As we parted ways, she asked when we’d be singing in the East Tennessee area next. We told her about the Gatlinburg Gathering and invited her and her husband to come. I jokingly told her that I’d expect to see her with her new false eyelashes, and told her how much I’d enjoyed talking to her. She wiped away a tear and said, “Oh, you don’t know how much meeting you and being able to talk to someone means to me. God knew exactly what I needed today.”

God always knows what we need–even if it’s false eyelashes.

  1. Kasey posted the following on September 4, 2008 at 3:02 pm.

    When you went into that store you might have only been going in there to look at all the stuff that us girls love, but it is very clear to me that God had something in mind for you to do and you did it well. Sometimes you can comfort people over things that you would have never thought about, and in this case it happened to be false eyelashes. This story has really touched me, because it showed me that you can comfort somebody without directly talking about what is going on. God Bless Ya’ll and your ministry.
    Your Biggest Fan,
    Kasey

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  2. Jeff posted the following on September 4, 2008 at 3:07 pm.

    Lauren, indulge in people and things you love…even when it seems hopeless. You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person. A cheerful friend is like a sunny day. :)

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  3. Susan posted the following on September 4, 2008 at 3:24 pm.

    Thank you!

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  4. Wes Burke posted the following on September 4, 2008 at 3:27 pm.

    A story like yours, Lauren, reinforces why I do not believe in luck or chance. God always has a reason.

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  5. Mary Campbell posted the following on September 4, 2008 at 3:32 pm.

    What a blessing!!
    We never know how,when,where or even what the Lord may use for His glory….all we have to be is a willing vessel….and then that vessel overflows with the joy of the Lord….that touches others around us and they in turn are truly blessed and pass it on to others.
    What a beautiful cycle of His glory!

    See ya @ NQC,

    Mary

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  6. Peggy Younce-Sowersby posted the following on September 4, 2008 at 4:28 pm.

    That story just about made me cry. I lost my father 11 years ago and he was my hero. The week before he died I had gone to visit him while he was in the VA hospital in Muskogee. He asked me to sing for him, as we are a musical family, and so I did and the other men in the room began to listen as well. Daddy and I always communicated better with music than anything else, and I’m forever thankful that I had that time with him. I can’t wait for heaven.

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  7. Rebecca posted the following on September 4, 2008 at 4:43 pm.

    I love these kinds of moments. God is really awesome when we take the time to realize it was Him. You really do have a kind family that takes the time to listen to the little things. To God be the glory!
    Love you all

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  8. Peggy posted the following on September 4, 2008 at 7:54 pm.

    Lauren what a great story . We can all learn a lesson from this and that is no matter where we are at or what we may be doing we can be truly blessed if we take the time to listen to someone else for a few minutes. It was so great seeing you at The gatlinburg Gathering , My husband was so glad that he got to meet you . The Talley’s have always been one of his favorite’s . I almost lost him on Fathers day But thanks to Gods Grace he is doing good now. Love you guys

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  9. Billy posted the following on September 5, 2008 at 1:10 am.

    What a blessing !! Praise the LORD !!!!!!

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  10. Jess posted the following on September 5, 2008 at 4:09 am.

    I’ve learned a long time ago that what we consider a coincident many times is His plan being fulfilled.

    When I see you at a concert sometime I’ll tell you about God’s plan one night a few years ago for me to provide something for Sheri Easter at a Gaither concert.

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  11. Mette Vestberg Sørensen posted the following on September 5, 2008 at 4:40 am.

    Hi Lauren!
    What a great story. Maybe I have to begin using false eyelashes!?
    Hope Gatlingburg was great. We missed it. And say hey to all your Norwegian friends at NQC. They will come to your booth.
    God bless.
    Klem Mette

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    1. Lauren Talley posted the following on September 6, 2008 at 9:44 pm.

      Two more months and we finally get some fresh fish!!

      Can’t wait to see you guys.

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  12. gene welsh posted the following on September 5, 2008 at 5:19 am.

    Was a wonderful story thanks for sharing. See you at the NQC. God Bless

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  13. RJ Henderson posted the following on September 5, 2008 at 6:16 am.

    Great story. I loved it. God Bless

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  14. Cheryl Campbell posted the following on September 5, 2008 at 7:22 am.

    What an awesome story. Okay, so I am coming by your booth so you can teach me how to apply the false eyelashes without them looking fake or appear to be falling off. See you at NQC.

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    1. Lauren Talley posted the following on September 6, 2008 at 9:46 pm.

      Maybe I should conduct a false eyelashes clinic?! ;)

      We want to meet as many of our Tree-O posters at NQC as possible so be sure to stop by!

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  15. louise posted the following on September 5, 2008 at 6:52 pm.

    i’m sorry to hear that your grandmother is in the hospital i pray for her and all of your family.
    this story touched my heart, you never know where are when
    your’ll life will touch another life.we just have to be open and ready.

    much prayer and love for your family

    louise thompson

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  16. Don Kunz posted the following on September 6, 2008 at 3:15 pm.

    Hi Lauren, what a great story. We sometimes don’t realize that something as little as stopping and talking to a stranger may mean so much to them. And that’s exactly what Jesus has told us to do. I don’t wear false eyelashes but I have learned to slow down and smell the roses, it could mean so much to someone. I can’t come to your concerts although I would love to but my health won’t allow it. I catch you on “you tube” daily and really enjoy your music. You don’t minister to just young people I will be 70 on my next birthday, Sept 7 2009
    God bless and keep the good music coming, Don

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